What You Need to Know to Lose Weight without Dieting - It's in the "WHY?"

By: Jane Powell - Meditations for Women

If your commitment to eat right, exercise, and lose weight always seems fizzle, you're not alone! Weight problems are not just about what you're eating, but WHY you are eating in the first place.

To see what I mean, ask yourself these questions.

Do you think about food and eating more than you think you should?
Do you feel guilty when you eat certain foods?
Do you have trouble passing up tempting food even if you aren’t hungry?
Do you often eat when you are bored, stressed, lonely, or angry?
Do you eat differently in private than you do in public?
Do you fluctuate between dieting and eating too much?
If you answered yes to most of these questions, it's probably no news to you that dieting hasn’t really solved the problem. To help you understand why, lets take a look at three different eating styles: Over Eating, Restrictive Eating, and Instinctive Eating.

"What's Your Eating Type?"

In “Over Eating” you eat because it's mealtime or because something looks good - whether you're hungry or not. You may also eat to distract yourself or cope with stress and emotions. You may reward, comfort, or entertain yourself with food. Your weight tends to go up and down depending on whether you're off or on your diet.

In “Restrictive Eating,” you control your weight by dieting. You decide when, what, and how much to eat based on the rules of the latest diet you are following. Since diet rules are always changing, you sometimes feel confused about what you should eat. You think of food as either “good” or “bad" -- and you think of yourself as good or bad, depending on what you ate.

Now think about someone who doesn’t struggle with his or her weight. If you are having trouble thinking of someone like that, think of a baby or a young child. I call this “Instinctive Eating.” These people just seem to know when, what, and how much food they need.

When their body needs fuel, they get hungry, triggering an urge to eat. They simply stop eating when their hunger is satisfied. Most of them really like to eat and seem to be able to eat whatever they want. However they will turn down even delicious food if they aren’t hungry.

"How Do They Do It?"

You might believe that a person who eats instinctively has been blessed with willpower and a great metabolism. But the truth is, we were all born Instinctive Eaters. It's just that many of us “unlearned” our natural ability to know how much to eat. The good news is that you can relearn those skills if you are willing. I did! Here is what I did to become an Instinctive Eater....

1. Let go of the idea that there is a perfect diet that will finally solve your problems. The answer lies within you.

2. Whenever you have an urge to eat, instead of focusing on the food, first ask yourself, “Am I hungry?” Remember that hunger is a physical feeling. It is not the same thing as appetite, cravings, or the desire to eat.

3. If you're hungry, remember that there are no “good” or “bad” foods. You are less likely to overeat certain foods if you know that you can have them again when you really want them.

4. Stop eating when the hunger is gone but before you feel full, even if there is food left. Give up your membership to the Clean Plate Club!

5. If you're not hungry, ask yourself if something in your environment triggered your urge to eat and what you could do to reduce the trigger or distract yourself from it. For instance, could you put the candy dish out of sight or do something else for a while until you are actually hungry?

6. If there was an emotional trigger, ask yourself what you could do to better cope with that emotion. For instance, if stress triggered your urge to eat, could you try a relaxation exercise instead?

7. Don’t expect yourself to be perfect—it is not possible or even necessary.

By relearning to eat instinctively, you will see that eating to satisfy hunger is pleasurable and that it is good to eat foods that you enjoy. You will find that meeting your other needs in appropriate ways will bring balance and joy to your life. By learning these important skills, you'll reach a healthier weight and a healthier lifestyle—without dieting!

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Article Source: http://www.meditationsforwomen.com/articles

About the Author: Michelle May, M.D. is a practicing Board Certified Family Physician with expertise in the cognitive-behavioral aspects of weight management. She is the author of Am I Hungry? What To Do When Diets Don’t Work in collaboration with a registered Dietitian and Psycholgist.

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