How to Get Clear About What You Want
If you're going through a life transition, or simply want to make a major change in your life but not sure where to start, begin by getting some clarity as to what you want in your life!
Believe it or not, this can be the perfect time to wipe the slate clean as you close one chapter and start a new one!
The only difference is that YOU get to be the author of this new chapter, and decide, design, and create whatever you choose to have in your life.
So take a few minutes, read the following and write down your answers to each one:
- What are the top 5 values in your life?(In other words, what are the 5 things you consider to be the most important aspects of your life? 5 things you're willing to pay anything for, to stand up for, to fight for? e.g. health, love, faith, courage, integrity, trust, happiness, joy, etc.)
- Write down the 3 most important goals or objectives in your life in 30 seconds or less!
- What would you do if you won millions in the lottery today?(What's the first thing you're going to? what changes would you make in your life? If time & money were no object what would you choose to do with your life? What would you dream to do?)
- If you only had 6 months to live, how would you spend your time?(What would you do? who would you spend your time with? where would you go? what would you do more of? what would you do less of? What would you start doing? What would you stop doing?)
- What have you always wanted to do but have been afraid to do?
- What type of activities, situations or things give you your greatest feeling of importance, satisfaction, contribution, self-esteem, and self-worth?
- Imagine you can receive ONE wish from a genie in a bottle! knowing that whatever you wish for you will have ultimate success with, what would you ask for?
Look at your answers, and based on what you came up with, write down the one thing you want to have and create in your life in the next 6 months. It's very important to keep this goal to yourself for now, or only share it with people who you know will be supportive of you and it!
Now get excited, create a plan to achieve this goal, and focus on it every single day, by taking some kind of action towards it.